The Secret to Maintaining Starts from the Inside Out
1 Feb 2011
My weight-loss story is a seemingly simple one.
I shed 35 pounds sixteen years ago and never looked back.
Done.
The more challenging piece to explain (and the question I’m most frequently asked) is how I’ve maintained the loss for so long. I know the statistic is hotly debated, but somewhere around 90% of all weight-loss is regained within five years.
My answer (after pondering this post for almost as long as it took me to shed the weight): I finally realized it was what’s was on the inside that mattered.
Let me back up.
I gained the majority of my weight in college. I drank lots of soda (and various & sundry other things), ate many late-night junk food meals with friends, and basically enjoyed my collegiate experience. If by ‘enjoyed’ you mean I packed on pounds quickfastandinahurry—which I do.
Unlike many of my peers I was pretty ok with my weight gain (that’s a post for a different day). The morning I discovered my pants no longer buttoned did I commence dieting and self-flagellation? Nope. I bloused a sweatshirt over-top of my jeans and proceeded along my soda-drinking way.
That said, when graduation loomed and the time came to don interview suits, I was faced with the reality none of them zipped.
Not only could I not employ my fluffing-the-sweatshirt trick with a skirt-suit, I’d grown but my bank account had not. Lacking the funds for new clothes, I commenced an exercise and revised eating routine which, after many months, resulted in this.
I discovered weight training. I re-found my old eating habits. I paid close attention to what I put inside my body. I thought I had it all figured out. I did not. I consumed lots of processed white (hello bagels!), ate virtually no fat (fare thee well salmon!) and was a lean, mean and exhausted shell of my former-self.
When I finally grew tired of being tired I stepped back and recorded precisely how I felt after eating various foods. Breads and pastas? I was still famished, usually swollen, and broken out in a rash. In addition I was definitely, clearly lethargic. Fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and gluten-free foods? I was a force to be reckoned with. I possessed boundless energy, my swelling/rashes disappeared, and after eating I was satiated.
While all of this reads even to me (now) as a no-brainer it transpired long before others were eating gluten-free and far before I realized when I feel healthier on the inside everything else (including my outsides) follows suit.
Weight-loss maintaining isn’t even a concept I consider these days.
My focus, and the one which has facilitated my maintenance over sixteen years, is fueling my insides in a way which allows me to live my life as filled with energy and healthfully (& rash-free) as possible.
It’s the insides which count.
Be well!
Carla
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Feb 03, 2011 @ 01:12:26
Standing ovation, Carla! What a powerful post. You’ve just confirmed everything I’ve ever believed about weight loss and maintenance.
I must admit, if I were to meet your blonder, heavier self in the street, I would recognize you!
Feb 03, 2011 @ 02:29:40
So very true! It’s all about how we *feel* and focusing on that (and fueling it) is the best way to stay on course.
Feb 03, 2011 @ 03:43:49
Carla, you are such an inspiration. I can’t wait to check in each morning and see what you have to say. I too have discovered that when I’m fueling my body with healthy foods, fruits and veggies, whole grains, proteins, I feel good, have energy and sleep better at night as well. It took a long time for me to realize that. I also learned what my “red light” foods are, things that I absolutely not cannot control, and I stay away from them. I still occasionally treat myself to things I love (pasta), but now the true traditional pasta dinner is limited to maybe once a month, and I add a side of roasted veggies to my plate and a big salad.
Feb 03, 2011 @ 03:52:07
Carla,
Mmm…the insides…that is such a great point!!
And you are so inspiring – not only for this today and where you have taken yourself – really for all that you are, every day….
Feb 03, 2011 @ 03:53:22
You are the poster girl for “Livestyle Change”
Not just lip service to lifestyle change, actual lifetime lifestyle change.
Bravo!
Feb 03, 2011 @ 03:57:30
Ok I have know you all this time and how did I not know you were gluten free too?!?
Hahaha all the more reason I love ya!
I’m glad you have maintained for so long, I hope to do the same and I’m glad I have such positive role models to look to
Thanks for sharing your story
Feb 03, 2011 @ 05:02:29
Awesome awesome awesome! I’m in my 3rd gluten-free week – what a difference!
Feb 03, 2011 @ 05:38:59
Beautifully put! I’m still on the path to figuring it all out, but I do know that when I pay attention to how foods make me feel I make better choices. It’s amazing how long I floated along not realizing that certain foods made me feel horrible.
Feb 03, 2011 @ 05:55:01
Carla, you are one of the most amazing people I have ever “met”!!! Now get on Ellen, come my way so I can meet you in person!
PS: I wish more of us like you, me & others got more credit for our long term maintenance of weight loss even though our was in the 35-40 pound range. No, it is not 100 or mote BUT we have kept if off for many many years. I know, a selfish thought but I do think more credit needs to be given to this.
YOU ROCK & I am in so much agreement with Joanna!
Feb 03, 2011 @ 06:30:55
Carla,
You know I’m a fan! I love this article & the love the example you set for so many! Kudos to all that you have, and all that you will have in the future! – SKH
Feb 03, 2011 @ 06:31:45
I didn’t even recognize you in that early picture, circa 19????
I wish I could focus more and remember how much better I feel w/out the crap. My insides panic, get anxious and then suck in the food to numb. I want to let go of that…..most days???
Feb 03, 2011 @ 06:36:03
you ARE a force to be reckoned with
Feb 03, 2011 @ 07:20:12
I was hoping your tip for keeping weight off was drinking beer through a straw. Sadly, it looks like I’ll have to exercise and watch what I eat…
Feb 03, 2011 @ 07:43:31
You continue to impress and inspire!
Feb 03, 2011 @ 07:50:36
What a great post!!!! I never knew the before “Carla”. I am struggling with losing 10 lbs and never thought to consider how foods make me feel. I usually give in to my cravings so I “believe” they make me feel good. I am only just realizing that they only make me feel good for a short period of time. Thanks so much for posting this. Love you Carla
Feb 03, 2011 @ 08:11:49
I am fascinated by the gluten debate to the point where I am in the process of studying how it affects me. Loved the post and your cute college pic (as another woman who has naturally dark hair but went blond once too). Lori
Feb 03, 2011 @ 08:14:21
It doesn’t matter whether you keep of 10 or 100 pounds – the learning is the important thing.
Feb 03, 2011 @ 08:39:05
Thank you for this. I am slowly making these same connections as I go along. I don’t want to be a statistic. Just healthy.
Feb 03, 2011 @ 09:24:54
Oh and I think the picture is circa 1991
Ahhh beer-thru-straw drinking youth.
Feb 03, 2011 @ 09:36:13
It always amazes me when I see your before picture. What an amazing transformation. Thanks for sharing.
Feb 03, 2011 @ 09:37:12
Even more inspiration for me to start a food journal, though I am not allergic to gluten. In fact, I become extremely cranky and unreasonable if I don’t get carbs. They don’t have to be processed, I just need cards.
Feb 03, 2011 @ 09:41:36
You are so awesome you even used to drink beer through a straw!
He he!!! Seriously, love how you keep everything so simple and effective!
Feb 03, 2011 @ 16:32:28
Two thumbs up!
Although I experienced the same swolleness, rashes etc., it took me forever to reslove my mind/body disconnect. Not quite forever really as I am as GF as can be…and loving it.
Feb 03, 2011 @ 18:10:42
Holy Cow! Carla Miz, I didn’t recognize the ‘before’ picture. I think the before looks cute, but dear lady you are AWESOME. Every time I come here, you make me smile. xo!
Feb 03, 2011 @ 18:23:55
Interesting stat; 90% of all weight-loss is regained within five years.
I look forward to jpining the 10% club.
I admit to knowing little about eating gluten-free, why someone does and what benefits it yields. Adding it to my list of learnings to be had.
Go Miz Go!
Feb 04, 2011 @ 01:52:31
I LOVE how your focus is on being healthy and doing it for the right reasons. Even if we’re doing “healthier” things for ourselves, we may not be happy if we’re doing it for the wrong reasons. You figured out how to do it for the right reasons and that’s why you’re maintaining your health and happienss so well! Awesome!
Feb 04, 2011 @ 01:58:48
Actually you look cute in your before picture,but of course much better now,sexier and more appealing.Good job!
Feb 04, 2011 @ 17:24:57
thats awesome that you kept up with your weight thanks for being an inspirtation
Feb 05, 2011 @ 12:51:56
Beautiful post! Well said and very inspiring. Thanks for sharing!
Hugs,
Barb
Feb 05, 2011 @ 12:57:22
Gives me hope!! I have been told all my life. Once you are fat, you will always be fat. Yes, you can lose it, but you will gain it all back and then some. I used to think, what was the point in even trying. You proved this can be done ~ forever!
Thanks for all you do!
Feb 07, 2011 @ 14:37:58
Wow what a transformation! Isn’t it weird seeing old photos of yourself and seeing how far you’ve come?
Feb 07, 2011 @ 18:35:04
Great post Carla.. It is the inside that counts.
You have inspired me to write my own post about how I have maintained my 4 year weight loss, diet free!